When I was 14 my parents divorced cause my dad was a cheater. My dad did the same shit and moved off to live with another woman and barely chats with us. Even though 3 years later my brother died in an accident. He still never tried to have a real relationship with me or my sister after that. I’m 36 now with a wife and 2 wonderful kids he has never met.
My mom on the other hand who powered the storm and made sure we got everything we needed even if she went without is still in my life and amazing. My sister and I both have a great relationship with her. I believe my sister still talks to my dad some but even she still complains he sucks. I hear the posts depressing stuff on Facebook about how his kids don’t talk to him but I don’t care.