Yepp. I convinced my husband to use his work bonus to buy a hot tub last year since his job is hard on his body, we had to have a new electrical run and everything. A month later my sister asked if my offer to be her surrogate still stood (yes of course!) so I can’t go in the hot tub either. I had a miscarriage after the first transfer, so it’s been like a year that I’ve been pregnant/bleeding/waiting/pregnant for. And now that it’s winter he gets bored out there without me so doesn’t bother to use it either.
It is relatively easy for most of the population and the time it is easiest in people’s lives is the time most don’t want kids (16-21). You frequently hear stories of people struggling because that is how they become stories, no one is gonna tell you how easy it was to conceive a kid. As an infertile person, it’s depressing how often people tell me how easily they get pregnant. lolol my boyfriend didn’t pull out once in February of last year, long story short I’m currently feeding my two months.